There are many kinds of people in this world as we can see and we sure will be seeing these varieties of people in our everyday life. Some are helpful, kind, nice, outgoing, cheerful, generous, etc. while some others are plain selfish, boastful, pretenders, irresponsible, etc. What kind of people are you meeting recently? I’m seeing a few of interesting people recently. There are these girls who are so in love with their boyfriends. Their boyfriends are their life. I don’t understand why we can’t have our friends and boyfriend at the same time. Why did you let your boyfriend out with their friends when they don’t allow you to hang out with your friends? Why must the boys give their girls such a hard time. I know, not all guys are like that.
I had a few conversations with a few different people, talking about their relationship problems. One said, never give all your heart to a guy for he will never appreciate what you gave but rip it apart cruelly. I don’t agree. If you don’t give all your heart to the person you love because of the fear of him ripping it apart, hurting you, then why are you still be with the guy since you don’t trust him? I believe love is about trusting each other. Trust that you both have feelings for each other. Trust that you both won’t betray each other. You’ll be hurt because you haven’t met the right guy in your life. Love is not about searching. Love, in fact, will come by itself without you welcoming it. There is a friend of mine who told me, “Li Ting wasn’t stupid. Li Ting was innocent. Li Ting doesn’t know what love is. That’s the reason, she loved the wrong person.” This line, indeed cheered me up when many of them were telling how stupid I was =) I’m not sure if she is teasing me or convincing me but still, thanks a lot Tracie Gan !!
One told me we shouldn’t remember what had happened in the past relationship because there were all about sad memories. I don’t agree. There are always some reasons why you were in relationship. No matter how bad the condition was, how bad the guy/girl was, there sure is something that you admire so much that you fall for him/her. Thus, there are sweet and bitter memories. Keep the sweet ones. At least when you thought of him/her one day, you’ll tell yourself “we were so sweet. We had good time together.” As for the sad stories, a couple of weeks ago, I would say, “delete them!” but the current me would say “keep them as a reminder for me not to let the same thing happen again.” I’m not sure if I’m right with what I’m thinking.
Two days back, I had a call which made me feel real bad. Even though I don’t think I had that power of making others into that sad and mad, but when I knew about it, I really feel bad. I want to help but I didn’t know how T.T I’m afraid I might make the situation worse. They are nice people. I know how much they care for me. I don’t hope things like that would happen to their family. I hope their problems would be settled soon. Well, is this broken heart season?
There’s another girl, well, not about love talks, about responsibility this time. I see not only her, but many students did the same. Yes, at most time, lecturers were not actually teaching, but plain reading the slides like we can’t read =.= but does that mean you won’t have to attend class just because the lecturer is mumbling and made you sleepy? Then what is the purpose you’re here? Aren’t you scared to be barred from examinations? If you really got barred, what would you do? Cry? Beg for help? Does that even help? What about assignments? Copy and paste others’ work and that’s the end of the story? So irresponsible! There are people who are very quiet at all times. People like that are the most dangerous people on earth. We won’t know what is in their mind. We don’t know what they’re thinking, what they’re planning, who they like, who they hate. Some might think, being quiet at times can help avoiding unnecessary problems but silence and hiding yourself is obviously running away from problems. You think you want to stay neutral? It is not easy! In fact, you’ll only give problems to others. Irresponsible! I wonder when these irresponsible people can start thinking properly and realized how irresponsible they were. Wake up people! Nobody will be there to help you do all these shits forever!
